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#328028 - 11/01/05 05:03 PM
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sounds like fun, I should grab some popcorn and enjoy the show
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#328029 - 11/01/05 05:23 PM
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*sigh* I need a woman in my life
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#328031 - 11/01/05 05:32 PM
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No you don't. Why do people do that? I swear if I hear, "There is a good guy out there for you Angie..." one more time I'm going to snap. Are you a fun person to hang around with? Do you have a lot of friends? Do you have a fun social life. I know that you are under age, but it is possible to have fun outside of a bar. Now if you answered yes to all of these, there is no reason for you to need a female in your life!!! OH MY HECK, dont get me started little one.
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#328033 - 11/01/05 05:40 PM
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Theres nothing wrong with wanting a girl in your life, you just cant expect it to happen by feeling sorry for yourself - like ron said, confidence is the key. Another way to look at things that will help you alot is you gotta make sure you're doing the choosing and deciding if the girl is good enough for you, not vice versa or you will just look like your trying to impress her when you could have her trying to impress you instead - its amazing how much different you act when you just have a little different mindset on that.
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#328036 - 11/01/05 05:46 PM
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Don't patronize him Ang! I think he needs sex.
LOL no I don't need sex at all... its not even about sex. Its about having somebody to call before you fall asleep, or when something great in your life happens and you want to share it with somebody. Its about filling that little void in the heart that nobody else can.
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#328038 - 11/01/05 05:47 PM
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Okay I do agree with the guys. There's nothing that turns a girl off more than a guy that has no confidence---or that is a leg hugger, HA!!! Listen to these guys they seem to know what they are talking about.
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#328039 - 11/01/05 05:47 PM
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Don't patronize him Ang! I think he needs sex.
LOL no I don't need sex at all... its not even about sex. Its about having somebody to call before you fall asleep, or when something great in your life happens and you want to share it with somebody. Its about filling that little void in the heart that nobody else can.
Sappy poeticism doesn't help either 
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#328040 - 11/01/05 05:48 PM
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There's no debate here. ZGuy needs some tail and ThePaul and I are looking out for him. 
wasn't referring to Zguy... I'm talking about the debate about the avatars...  Who cares what one chooses to use... it's their choice.
I see. Anons give me a nasty rash.
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#328041 - 11/01/05 05:50 PM
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I thought finding ladies in WI was hard...sounds like it's worse in other states!
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#328042 - 11/01/05 05:51 PM
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Don't patronize him Ang! I think he needs sex.
LOL no I don't need sex at all... its not even about sex. Its about having somebody to call before you fall asleep, or when something great in your life happens and you want to share it with somebody. Its about filling that little void in the heart that nobody else can.
Sappy poeticism doesn't help either
I'm a hopeless romantic.... what else can I say?
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#328043 - 11/01/05 05:55 PM
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Zguy- they are right confidence is the most important part of finding someone. But it may not be that perfect person you have described before, and it may not happen soon. Be open to everyone you meet and take the time to get to know them. People tend to make assumptions based on looks, but that is not the most important part. I have known guys that at first glance didn't impress me, but after I got to know them they became more attractive. Don't let your vision of perfection confine your relm of possibilities.
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#328044 - 11/01/05 06:03 PM
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I read in my psychology book though that if a guy has a stable carreer and a promising future, women tend to not care that they're not that hot. Men on the other hand though place more importantance on how a woman looks. They would rather be with someone that looks good rather than has stability. Interesting, huh?
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#328046 - 11/01/05 06:08 PM
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Zguy- they are right confidence is the most important part of finding someone. But it may not be that perfect person you have described before, and it may not happen soon. Be open to everyone you meet and take the time to get to know them. People tend to make assumptions based on looks, but that is not the most important part. I have known guys that at first glance didn't impress me, but after I got to know them they became more attractive. Don't let your vision of perfection confine your relm of possibilities.
Its not a matter of vision or basing love souley on looks. I firmly believe that having a mental connection is the most stimulating part of human interaction. I have been patient, and I don't rush into things or make assumptions. What I'm looking for at my age is relatively unheard of; as most college students are just looking for a quick hook up, which isn't the case for me... never had a "one nighter" and don't plan on it. It just gets awfully tiring of meeting somebody new, I am a creature of habit and when you have to meet somebody new, its pretty hard for me, I openly admit that. Basically... Yes I agree with you, love isn't based on looks, and I know I need more self confidence, I just don't know where to look for it
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#328048 - 11/01/05 06:15 PM
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Easy, Guy.
There are 2 answers to that. If you want to hear my 2 cents.
I did pretty well in that area.
Anyway....1) Fake it
2) Start undertaking tasks or hobbies you normally wouldn't.
Fake it? I'll pass on that one
the second I will have to try
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#328050 - 11/01/05 06:15 PM
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#328052 - 11/01/05 06:58 PM
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Zguy, look at it from the other side and you might see what me and Ron are trying to say a little more. If you had the choice of dating an insecure girl who was only worried about what you think of her or a girl who was sure of herself and was ready to go out and have fun whether you like her or not, which one would you choose? Theres an extra edge that you get when you don't know if a person your attracted to is attracted to you, if you make it too clear to the other person that your doing nothing but trying to win them over then that edge is gone and usually their attraction goes away with it. Basically to sum up what im saying, the way youre going about getting a girl is logical, but attraction isnt... a girl doesnt meet a guy who seems nice and just decide that shes going to be attracted to him, its up to you to do that by keeping it interesting.
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And guys only cared about looks?? 
I should write textbooks. 
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