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#328453 - 04/27/06 09:55 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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I will tell her this tonight, I am sure she will laugh. She is from Loosiana.




How the heck did she end up in OK?
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#328454 - 04/27/06 09:57 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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I will tell her this tonight, I am sure she will laugh. She is from Loosiana.




How the heck did she end up in OK?




Maybe she was tired of swimming out her front door.

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#328455 - 04/27/06 10:12 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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I will tell her this tonight, I am sure she will laugh. She is from Loosiana.




How the heck did she end up in OK?




Maybe she was tired of swimming out her front door.




Aw, Comply...
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#328456 - 05/03/06 07:40 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Curious... all the SINGLE men please give me your thoughts:

Times have changed... how do you feel about females asking you out on a date? I'm just curious.

To make a long story short... I've some female friends trying to encourage me to ask someone out... I just don't think I can do it...all my life I was taught.. if the male likes ya... he'll ask... that it's not proper for young ladies to be asking men out. Your thoughts please.....
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#328457 - 05/03/06 08:08 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Curious... all the SINGLE men please give me your thoughts:

Times have changed... how do you feel about females asking you out on a date? I'm just curious.

To make a long story short... I've some female friends trying to encourage me to ask someone out... I just don't think I can do it...all my life I was taught.. if the male likes ya... he'll ask... that it's not proper for young ladies to be asking men out. Your thoughts please.....





I used to feel the same way you do. Now I realize that its okay for us girls to make the first move. Of course this doesn't change that I am still scared shitless that he's going to laugh at me.
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#328458 - 05/03/06 08:12 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Curious... all the SINGLE men please give me your thoughts:

Times have changed... how do you feel about females asking you out on a date? I'm just curious.

To make a long story short... I've some female friends trying to encourage me to ask someone out... I just don't think I can do it...all my life I was taught.. if the male likes ya... he'll ask... that it's not proper for young ladies to be asking men out. Your thoughts please.....





I used to feel the same way you do. Now I realize that its okay for us girls to make the first move. Of course this doesn't change that I am still scared shitless that he's going to laugh at me.




Now you know how us men feel. Many a times I never asked a girl out I liked because of this fear. I would have thought it awesome if a girl asked me out. Now that I'm married I fear being asked out, thanks to my wife.
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#328459 - 05/03/06 08:15 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Search, I think it's cool if a girl asks a guy! I like the idea actually. I've been approached by a few girls and I have never looked at the situation any differently.

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#328460 - 05/03/06 08:18 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Curious... all the SINGLE men please give me your thoughts:

Times have changed... how do you feel about females asking you out on a date? I'm just curious.

To make a long story short... I've some female friends trying to encourage me to ask someone out... I just don't think I can do it...all my life I was taught.. if the male likes ya... he'll ask... that it's not proper for young ladies to be asking men out. Your thoughts please.....





I used to feel the same way you do. Now I realize that its okay for us girls to make the first move. Of course this doesn't change that I am still scared shitless that he's going to laugh at me.




Problem is... I really don't know this guy.... he works out at the gym I attend.

Two weeks ago I noticed him... mainly because I noticed he was looking my direction... thought I was reading into something that wasn't there until he finally said one night... Hi, how are you? as I was walking the track... since then.. we seem to just look at one another, smile, wave, blush and keep going on with our workouts. I'd like to talk to him.. just not sure what to say... also I use my MP3player... and so my ears are always plugged... I might just forget to carry it a few nights...and see what happens.

Hmmm... I know I sound crazy...so I've told a few of my friends... and they are encouragin me... but I'm just undecided.
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#328461 - 05/03/06 08:20 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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why don't you challenge him to a race... bet that would help bring on a conversation...
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#328462 - 05/03/06 08:21 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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why don't you challenge him to a race... bet that would help bring on a conversation...




ROFL... too funny....
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#328463 - 05/03/06 08:23 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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why don't you challenge him to a race... bet that would help bring on a conversation...




ROFL... too funny....




of course im probably the last person you should be listening to... i haven't been technically on a date since I moved to arkansas. I've ask two different guys out, one turned out to be married (the good ones are always taken) and the other quickly changed the subject and has never spoken to me since. what a turd.
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#328464 - 05/03/06 08:27 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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why don't you challenge him to a race... bet that would help bring on a conversation...




ROFL... too funny....




of course im probably the last person you should be listening to... i haven't been technically on a date since I moved to arkansas. I've ask two different guys out, one turned out to be married (the good ones are always taken) and the other quickly changed the subject and has never spoken to me since. what a turd.




that is the same thing I tell girls when I don't like em. Hey I"m married, back off!

Strongbad, what do u look like?

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#328465 - 05/03/06 08:27 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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search, based on what you've said I can tell you he's definitely interested, so I really doubt that you would get rejected... and like the other guys have said, I also dont see anything wrong with girls asking guys out. And ya, we have to go through the same thing everytime we ask a girl out too, which may be why he hasnt asked you out yet
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#328466 - 05/03/06 08:28 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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why don't you challenge him to a race... bet that would help bring on a conversation...




ROFL... too funny....




of course im probably the last person you should be listening to... i haven't been technically on a date since I moved to arkansas. I've ask two different guys out, one turned out to be married (the good ones are always taken) and the other quickly changed the subject and has never spoken to me since. what a turd.




Sorry to hear that... last date I was on was about a month or 2 ago... nothing serious... just friends... one of those that I tried to date in the past... and knew it would never lead to anything... we just weren't on the same page in life... still ask myself why I agreed to go back out with him... oh well.. ya live and learn..

And this is the reason I don't want to be the one to make the first move... I think I'll wait it out... and if nothing happens... just wasn't meant to be... right?
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#328467 - 05/03/06 08:33 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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search, based on what you've said I can tell you he's definitely interested, so I really doubt that you would get rejected... and like the other guys have said, I also dont see anything wrong with girls asking guys out. And ya, we have to go through the same thing everytime we ask a girl out too, which may be why he hasnt asked you out yet




Geesh... I didn't realize asking us gals out was such a big issue... dealing with the rejection. Now that I've been thinking... I can totally understand how you guys feel.

Last night I saw him... he was working on the elliptical machine... and I happened to look up..was messing with my mp3player... and noticed he was looking at me... seems we stared forever and then he raised his hand... waved and said hi... me and my stupid earphones... I smiled real big... turned bright red in the face and said hi back. Wanted to stop walking and go talk to him.. but didn't really think I should so I continued walking the track.
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#328468 - 05/03/06 08:35 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Well Search, here's how I see it... If you ask him out and he turns out to be "a turd" as strongbad would say, then at least you found out sooner rather than waiting, no harm done. But if he approached you originally, even if it was just to say "hi" then he is obviously interested, just maybe not sure if YOU would say yes... I say go for it
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#328469 - 05/03/06 08:37 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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that is the same thing I tell girls when I don't like em. Hey I"m married, back off!

Strongbad, what do u look like?




well in the married mans case I have since met his wife, so I know he was telling the truth...

as far as what do i look like, i am 3'10" 400 lbs and have a bad case of pimples... why? do you think thats why the guy didn't want to go out with me?
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#328470 - 05/03/06 08:37 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Well Search, here's how I see it... If you ask him out and he turns out to be "a turd" as strongbad would say, then at least you found out sooner rather than waiting, no harm done. But if he approached you originally, even if it was just to say "hi" then he is obviously interested, just maybe not sure if YOU would say yes... I say go for it




Well.. I'm thinking I'll leave the MP3 player behind for a few nights... that way when he speaks to me... and I speak back... it can leave room for more conversation... as my ears won't be plugged up and cause it to appear as if I'm not interested.

I need to take baby steps... last serious relationship I was in ... was not the best... almost caused me to never want to date again.
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#328471 - 05/03/06 08:38 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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that is the same thing I tell girls when I don't like em. Hey I"m married, back off!

Strongbad, what do u look like?




well in the married mans case I have since met his wife, so I know he was telling the truth...

as far as what do i look like, i am 3'10" 400 lbs and have a bad case of pimples... why? do you think thats why the guy didn't want to go out with me?




LOL... that last part sounds like something Ang used to say in this thread...
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#328472 - 05/03/06 08:39 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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last serious relationship I was in ... was not the best... almost caused me to never want to date again.




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#328473 - 05/03/06 08:40 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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last serious relationship I was in ... was not the best... almost caused me to never want to date again.




believe me, i know how you feel.




Sad to say... once we have those bad ones... it can really make it hard for the next man that comes along...
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#328474 - 05/03/06 08:41 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Well Search, here's how I see it... If you ask him out and he turns out to be "a turd" as strongbad would say, then at least you found out sooner rather than waiting, no harm done. But if he approached you originally, even if it was just to say "hi" then he is obviously interested, just maybe not sure if YOU would say yes... I say go for it




Well.. I'm thinking I'll leave the MP3 player behind for a few nights... that way when he speaks to me... and I speak back... it can leave room for more conversation... as my ears won't be plugged up and cause it to appear as if I'm not interested.

I need to take baby steps... last serious relationship I was in ... was not the best... almost caused me to never want to date again.


ouch, thats too bad search, but try not to let that stop you from finding someone else. Since theres more bad than good out there, you usually gotta meet a few bad ones before you find a good one... especially for you girls since many guys are just out for sex (not that there arent plenty of girls who are too, just not as many), but you can easily weed those out by just waiting to "put out" lol
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#328475 - 05/03/06 08:43 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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next time bring him a towel and say may i dry you sir? That will definitely work.

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#328476 - 05/03/06 08:44 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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if that works it can go in the pickup lines thread.

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#328477 - 05/03/06 08:45 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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why don't you challenge him to a race... bet that would help bring on a conversation...




lol! This is how my husband got me to go out with him for the first time.

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