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#328628 - 05/05/06 08:42 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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my brain is currently in 3 different places... ones at work, ones at home, and one is on a boat in the middle of the carribbean with Jake Gyllenhaal.




Well.. if it were my brain... I'd be all the way in the carribbean with Gyllenhaal... and nothing else would bothering me...
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#328629 - 05/05/06 09:00 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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my brain is currently in 3 different places... ones at work, ones at home, and one is on a boat in the middle of the carribbean with Jake Gyllenhaal.




Well.. if it were my brain... I'd be all the way in the carribbean with Gyllenhaal... and nothing else would bothering me...





problem is customers get confused when i accidentally wink at them...
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#328630 - 05/05/06 09:34 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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my brain is currently in 3 different places... ones at work, ones at home, and one is on a boat in the middle of the carribbean with Jake Gyllenhaal.




Well.. if it were my brain... I'd be all the way in the carribbean with Gyllenhaal... and nothing else would bothering me...





problem is customers get confused when i accidentally wink at them...




LOL...
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#328631 - 05/08/06 08:51 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Search, are you going to try again tonight?
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#328632 - 05/08/06 08:52 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Search, are you going to try again tonight?




LOL... tonight starts the week of four straight days of workout... if he's there tonight.. we'll see what happens...
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#328633 - 05/08/06 08:59 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Search, are you going to try again tonight?




LOL... tonight starts the week of four straight days of workout... if he's there tonight.. we'll see what happens...




just think of it this way... if you don't get the guy... at least you will be in excellent shape! I go to curves to work out so there aren't any potential love interests there...
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#328634 - 05/08/06 09:17 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Search, are you going to try again tonight?




LOL... tonight starts the week of four straight days of workout... if he's there tonight.. we'll see what happens...




just think of it this way... if you don't get the guy... at least you will be in excellent shape! I go to curves to work out so there aren't any potential love interests there...




I did curves years ago.. showed up one night to workout- found a notice on the door that they had closed and would not be reopening... totally strange.... I picked this gym to be able to intermingle with everyone... yet seems I'm having a hard time just breaking ice with people... I pop my headphones in and go about my workout. Also at curves... I was always in the cool down area.. the music would get me so pumped that I'd get busy working out.. then my heart rate would be too fast..
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#328635 - 05/08/06 09:27 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Search, are you going to try again tonight?




LOL... tonight starts the week of four straight days of workout... if he's there tonight.. we'll see what happens...




just think of it this way... if you don't get the guy... at least you will be in excellent shape! I go to curves to work out so there aren't any potential love interests there...




I did curves years ago.. showed up one night to workout- found a notice on the door that they had closed and would not be reopening... totally strange.... I picked this gym to be able to intermingle with everyone... yet seems I'm having a hard time just breaking ice with people... I pop my headphones in and go about my workout. Also at curves... I was always in the cool down area.. the music would get me so pumped that I'd get busy working out.. then my heart rate would be too fast..




i like curves because i dont have to feel self-consious about being in my ugly workout clothes, i dont have to wait for a machine and it only takes 30 minutes... then i go to a yoga class wed nights where its coed but we aren't supposed to talk during that
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#328636 - 05/08/06 09:30 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Search, are you going to try again tonight?




LOL... tonight starts the week of four straight days of workout... if he's there tonight.. we'll see what happens...




just think of it this way... if you don't get the guy... at least you will be in excellent shape! I go to curves to work out so there aren't any potential love interests there...




I did curves years ago.. showed up one night to workout- found a notice on the door that they had closed and would not be reopening... totally strange.... I picked this gym to be able to intermingle with everyone... yet seems I'm having a hard time just breaking ice with people... I pop my headphones in and go about my workout. Also at curves... I was always in the cool down area.. the music would get me so pumped that I'd get busy working out.. then my heart rate would be too fast..




i like curves because i dont have to feel self-consious about being in my ugly workout clothes, i dont have to wait for a machine and it only takes 30 minutes... then i go to a yoga class wed nights where its coed but we aren't supposed to talk during that




At the gym I attend...so far I've not had to wait for any of the machines I work on...yoga.. that sounds like fun. Getting back into the rountine of working out has made me realize how much I miss kick-boxing.
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#328637 - 05/11/06 01:30 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Okay... so I finally suck it up and decided to be the first to actually go up and talk...instead of continuing the eye contact, waveing, blushing and following through with our own routines.

Last night at the gym... he was there again... again we make eye contact and wave... I make a few more laps around the track... when I think to myself... heck.. what do I have to lose... I'll go and say hi.

So I approach him... only to find out that 11 years have passed between the two of us... and he remembers me.. yet I can't remember him.... He was my classmate. He just moved back home from Germany.... and has only been back for 2 1/2 weeks.

So we spend the next 15-20 min talking before we realize the gym is about to close and he needs to complete his workout.

Anyways... just wanted to give ya guys an update.

Like I thought... he was just being polite...
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#328638 - 05/11/06 01:40 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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New Flash:

Regarding: Gym Guy

Okay... so I finally suck it up and decided to be the first to actually go up and talk...instead of continuing the eye contact, waveing, blushing and following through with our own routines.

Last night at the gym... he was there again... again we make eye contact and wave... I make a few more laps around the track... when I think to myself... heck.. what do I have to lose... I'll go and say hi.

So I approach him... only to find out that 11 years have passed between the two of us... and he remembers me.. yet I can't remember him.... He was my classmate. He just moved back home from Germany.... and has only been back for 2 1/2 weeks.

So we spend the next 15-20 min talking before we realize the gym is about to close and he needs to complete his workout.

Anyways... just wanted to give ya guys an update.

Like I thought... he was just being polite...




You think he was giving you the brush off Search? He may just have been focused on working out and wasn't thinkin. Maybe after he has the chance to think about it, he'll think "duh, I blew it." Continue to say hi when you see him -- it'll give him another chance. If all else fails, take off your shoes and flash him those sexy feet -- he won't be able to resist.

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#328639 - 05/11/06 01:44 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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So what did you guys talk about? Was anything actually brought up that would make it obvious that he was just being polite? The reason I ask is because if you're assuming that just because he didnt ask you out or ask for your phone number or anything he could just be shy, or plan to "work his way in" as many guys would say lol.
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#328640 - 05/11/06 01:47 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Oh and if you're saying that just because he wanted to finish his workout I wouldnt worry about that, I know if it were me I woulda wanted to finish mine too. Many guys are very serious about their workouts and do not go to the gym to talk, the only time I talk at the gym is between sets or if I'm playing basketball.
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#328641 - 05/11/06 01:54 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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...Many guys are very serious about their workouts and do not go to the gym to talk...




? ? why would they want to do that?? (I wondered why I can't seem to get in shape no matter how often I go to the gym...)

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#328642 - 05/11/06 01:56 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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...Many guys are very serious about their workouts and do not go to the gym to talk...




? ? why would they want to do that?? (I wondered why I can't seem to get in shape no matter how often I go to the gym...)



lol it sounds funny but I do have friends that I used to work out with but had to stop going with them because they ended up talking more than working out and spending 2.5 hours in the gym for a 40 minute workout... and by that time you've already passed the point in time where you need to be taking in protein.
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#328643 - 05/11/06 02:01 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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New Flash:

Regarding: Gym Guy

Okay... so I finally suck it up and decided to be the first to actually go up and talk...instead of continuing the eye contact, waveing, blushing and following through with our own routines.

Last night at the gym... he was there again... again we make eye contact and wave... I make a few more laps around the track... when I think to myself... heck.. what do I have to lose... I'll go and say hi.

So I approach him... only to find out that 11 years have passed between the two of us... and he remembers me.. yet I can't remember him.... He was my classmate. He just moved back home from Germany.... and has only been back for 2 1/2 weeks.

So we spend the next 15-20 min talking before we realize the gym is about to close and he needs to complete his workout.

Anyways... just wanted to give ya guys an update.

Like I thought... he was just being polite...




You think he was giving you the brush off Search? He may just have been focused on working out and wasn't thinkin. Maybe after he has the chance to think about it, he'll think "duh, I blew it." Continue to say hi when you see him -- it'll give him another chance. If all else fails, take off your shoes and flash him those sexy feet -- he won't be able to resist.




LOL... not really sure what to think Comply... I truly think he is shy... and I fell terrible I can't recall him.... I think that kinda disappointed him some... I'll continue to say hi...

Oh... well ya know how that is... not all men are into feet...
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#328644 - 05/11/06 02:06 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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So what did you guys talk about? Was anything actually brought up that would make it obvious that he was just being polite? The reason I ask is because if you're assuming that just because he didnt ask you out or ask for your phone number or anything he could just be shy, or plan to "work his way in" as many guys would say lol.




Oh I didn't care that he didn't request my phone number or such... we talked about quiet a bit... it's been 11 years... a lot has happened in our lifes. We talked about what we have been doing since we graduated... I asked if he had married... had children... no to both questions... said he just started college as soon as we graduated and then in 98 went off to the service... I asked if he was completely finished...with no chance of being deployed and he said yes. He's been finished with the service but was working at the base there in Germany for the last 8 months...but was tired of the service and needed a change so he came back home.

Talked about where we work... ya know... just small stuff... people we went to school with.. sad thing.. we both had a hard time remembering most of our classmates...
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#328645 - 05/11/06 02:07 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Oh and if you're saying that just because he wanted to finish his workout I wouldnt worry about that, I know if it were me I woulda wanted to finish mine too. Many guys are very serious about their workouts and do not go to the gym to talk, the only time I talk at the gym is between sets or if I'm playing basketball.




That's what I think.. ya don't go to the gym to chat... ya go to work out... So I totally understood him wanting to finish... I think he was just being polite because we had been classmates.
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#328646 - 05/11/06 02:08 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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...Many guys are very serious about their workouts and do not go to the gym to talk...




? ? why would they want to do that?? (I wondered why I can't seem to get in shape no matter how often I go to the gym...)




Comply.. you're so funny...
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#328647 - 05/11/06 02:20 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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regardless of the fact that you were classmates, you don't keep looking at someone if you dont think they look good
And if you see a classmate who you dont particularly want to talk to you would probably try as hard as possible to NOT make eye contact lol
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#328648 - 05/11/06 02:32 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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regardless of the fact that you were classmates, you don't keep looking at someone if you dont think they look good
And if you see a classmate who you dont particularly want to talk to you would probably try as hard as possible to NOT make eye contact lol




well he did say... I wasn't sure if you remembered me...

Who knows... I'm terrible when it comes to stuff like this...
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#328649 - 05/11/06 03:11 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Search...I don't think this is a bad thing...

continue to be your friendly self and see what happens...

(my lawman and I went to school together, but didn't know each other from school... also, I met him when he moved home after his stint was up in the Marine Corps
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#328650 - 05/11/06 03:18 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Search...I don't think this is a bad thing...

continue to be your friendly self and see what happens...

(my lawman and I went to school together, but didn't know each other from school... also, I met him when he moved home after his stint was up in the Marine Corps




Wow...interesting...so this seems like a repeat of your life then... Ok.. so I'm just gonna continue to be polite... and try to make small talk...but not much...afterall I'm going to the gym to get in shape...not have a social gathering... Plus... I want to be respectful of his workout time...
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#328651 - 05/11/06 03:52 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Search...I don't think this is a bad thing...

continue to be your friendly self and see what happens...

(my lawman and I went to school together, but didn't know each other from school... also, I met him when he moved home after his stint was up in the Marine Corps




Wow...interesting...so this seems like a repeat of your life then... Ok.. so I'm just gonna continue to be polite... and try to make small talk...but not much...afterall I'm going to the gym to get in shape...not have a social gathering... Plus... I want to be respectful of his workout time...



Well there are times when people go to talk when they arent working out, and we usually call those dates
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#328652 - 05/11/06 04:34 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Search...I don't think this is a bad thing...

continue to be your friendly self and see what happens...

(my lawman and I went to school together, but didn't know each other from school... also, I met him when he moved home after his stint was up in the Marine Corps




Wow...interesting...so this seems like a repeat of your life then... Ok.. so I'm just gonna continue to be polite... and try to make small talk...but not much...afterall I'm going to the gym to get in shape...not have a social gathering... Plus... I want to be respectful of his workout time...



Well there are times when people go to talk when they arent working out, and we usually call those dates




LOL...

Okay.. so I called a friend of mine.. that used to work here with me... she and her husband graduated with myself and the gym guy. Anyways... she said he was extremely shy in school... and that she and her husband had bumped into him at the gym and talked to him... so I got some more info on him... which is good... for me... LOL...

Hmm... I'm in a really good mood today...
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