Who cares? LOL Nah, he's leaving to sell Real Estate. I'm so happy!

That's funny you said that. I mentioned to a co-worker that I was going to email her and ask her if she was okay with him leaving the bank. Now she wont be able to watch him when he works with new females.

hhmmm...what a pity...LOL....

Ummm, I'm kinda worried. Is Ang ok? She hasn't made a post on this thread since 3:00 yesterday. This DEFINITELY isn't like her...

Never fear, Angie is here. It's nice y'all are concerned about me, really. We're doing a customer apprication bbq, and you all are invited! I'm mingling.

For those who have participated in online dating: EHarmony v Match...which do you like better???

Anon, I think it depends on what you are looking for. EHarmony is totally geared towards finding you a spouse and most of the people on there are looking for their "soulmate." There is some of that on Match, but the expectation of permanence is not quite as high.

Match is interesting, I'm currently subscribed to it. I'm meeting one guy, but the others on there are kind of odd. I would try EHarmony, I'm not impressed with match.

I'm just not as brave as some of you... good luck in your choice...

This is a little bit of a rant, but here's a new twist to our dating thread (and an update of my social life)...

The guy I'm dating and I were going to a concert last weekend, his roommate also had tickets. His roommate didn't want to take either of the girls he had been casually dating (one was very young and the other was a witch...his words not mine). He just wanted someone fun to hang out with...no relationship crap. So I mentioned my little sister (the roommate's 24 she's 21)...so we invited her one week before the concert.

I was a little concerned the week leading up to the concert because she kept asking lots of questions about the roommate. I repeatedly told her about the two girls he was dating and that this was not an arranged marriage, just a fun night out...they never had to see each other again. WELL, by the time the night was over they were ALL over each other. She didn't come home with me (on Sunday), the roommate brought her home the next day (Monday). She "accidently" forgot her phone in his truck and went out to see him Tuesday...and they showed up at the guy I'm datings work and informed him that she was staying the night while the roommate went to work last night. For some reason she's taken a week off work (I know 28 hours is a lot) before she starts school...so she has NOTHING to do at the moment.

My guy owns the house...the roommate just rents from him. According to my guy...the roommate usually doesn't have girls stay over while he's at work. He's a little wierded out by the fact that it was just going to be the two of them there all night long.

Well she stayed the night...and I guess it was wierd. My guy just got home and said they're STILL there.

My sister told me Monday night that they weren't dating, just friends...she had just gotten out of a serious relationship and didn't want to jump into another one. HELLO? She's been with the roommate nonstop since she met the guy! UGH!

Here are my questions...

1. As a sister...do I mention that I think she should do what she said and slow down? Or butt out?

2. As a girlfriend...do I tell my guy to tell his roommate that his new woman can't shack up there while he's gone to work? Or is that completely overstepping my boundries as a girlfriend?

AHHHH!

1. Butt out, only because she's family, and also she's 21 and she can make her own decisions.

2. Dont have him say something. I would maybe say, Hey if you dont like it, say something to her. Say like, if you're uncomfortable with it, say something, because he doesnt want to be left alone with her.

I forgot to mention the best part. Last night while she was crashed on his couch watching tv...she told my guy that she and the roommate made plans for all of us INCLUDING MY KIDS to go to the roommates parents over Labor Day. The roommates mom was going to keep my kids while we went floating.

There are several problems with this...

1. Who the heck is she to be making plans for us?
2. My kids haven't met this guy yet and don't know if/when they will...how dare she include them!
3. IF I decided to take my kids I sure as heck wouldn't dump them on someone's mother...they would go floating as well.

She's notorious for opening her mouth when she shouldn't and took to telling my guy "funny" stories about me last night. To the point that he got up and left his OWN house. I tried to get him to tell me what she was saying, but he refused...he said he'd rather me be mad at him for not telling me than be mad at her for opening her mouth.

1. I would say something to her, but only once. Just state, for the record, your view that she's moving too quickly and that he's got other girls. After that, you've done everything you can. (And by the way, staying the night w/ someone isn't exactly dating, in my opinion.)

2. Why don't you want her there when the roommate isn't? Do you not trust your boyfriend and your sister together? If so, you've got other issues. Remember, just because a man and a woman are under the same roof, doesn't mean they're having sex!

PS ~ Did you mention your sister is *ahem* 21? Where's she at? LOL

You have me blue, I'm the older woman, HA! Oh wait, sorry Saphire.

Blue...no it's not that I don't trust him (or her for that matter)...I just don't see any reason for her to be there when the roommate is not. I know why she's hanging out there...she's moved back in with mom and HATES it there. She'd rather be anywhere than with mom. I also remember my guy saying that one of the only reasons he let the roommate move in was because they worked opposite shifts and it was like they both lived alone...they had thier quiet time. I can see this crowding our "quiet time" a great deal.

Yes...she's 21...blonde with big b**bs and adorable...but has issues.

There are women without issues???

<<ducks as objects fly through the air>>

Icy glares... giving me...frostbite.

You're freakin' hilarious today aren't you!

Ang already gave the best advice, you said your sister had to go to school soon, so whatever is happening should be short lived. Although it would bother me to have a sib telling dark secrets to my partner.

Then I would punch her. Tell her to be quiet! Then butt out. If she starts to ditch classes for this guy, maybe give her a little sisterly advice, but that's it. Your boyfriend should make the move about telling the roommate to stop.

Hi, Who. How are you doing? Long time no talk to.

Ahem, why did I not meet your sister?

Sorry Jen. Ang, I think, has it nailed.

Jamie...........Where ya been?