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#2258432 - 08/19/21 08:18 PM
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Did you ever have one of those weeks where you feel like you just can't do or say anything right? Ugh! One more day!
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#2258433 - 08/19/21 08:28 PM
Re: can't do anything right
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Yes!!!!! This has been my week. Too much to do, too little time, and everything I touch breaks.
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#2258434 - 08/19/21 08:34 PM
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The past few months of my life I've felt similar - like I'm not doing anything well any more.
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#2258435 - 08/19/21 08:36 PM
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Skittles, I feel the same way daily. I am hoping it gets better. Everyone around me seems to be having the same problems.
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#2258436 - 08/19/21 08:41 PM
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I think it's a pandemic effect, at least partly. It's harder to separate from work for down time when your office is your home.
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#2258438 - 08/19/21 08:55 PM
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it's also difficult to stay positive when everyone else is a crab....
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#2258446 - 08/20/21 01:15 AM
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Crabby people make me crabby. So do people that cannot make up their mind at decision points where I cannot proceed until they make a decision.
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#2258453 - 08/20/21 11:55 AM
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Wait till you get older and less tolerant. I live in a 55+ community and several friends whose "mouth mufflers" no longer work. You know exactly where they stand. What is on their mind leaks out. Nothing viscous, just straight to the point.
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#2258454 - 08/20/21 12:41 PM
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I am older .... I turned 60 a few months ago.
I made the decision to retire early after months of contemplation. My husband is 9 years older than I am and I want to retire and hopefully do some things before we're both too old. While I initially stated September 30th, that may get pushed out a bit to make the transition a little easier - and hopefully a new Chief Compliance Officer can be hired.
Time will tell.
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#2258457 - 08/20/21 01:17 PM
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YEAH! Congratulations!
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#2258458 - 08/20/21 01:18 PM
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I am older .... I turned 60 a few months ago.
I made the decision to retire early after months of contemplation. My husband is 9 years older than I am and I want to retire and hopefully do some things before we're both too old. While I initially stated September 30th, that may get pushed out a bit to make the transition a little easier - and hopefully a new Chief Compliance Officer can be hired.
Time will tell. My husband took early retirement this year, and joining him looks more attractive every day.
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#2258459 - 08/20/21 01:21 PM
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Congrats Skittles! So jealous!
I'm a few years out from retirement but I told our EVP that I was tired...so very tired.
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#2258462 - 08/20/21 01:32 PM
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uggg. All this talk of retirement - it doesn't even qualify as an abstract concept for me just yet lol. My sights are set 15 years in the future. Assuming I can survive banking that long that will give me 35 years.
Congrats Skittles!
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#2258463 - 08/20/21 01:38 PM
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burkemi - I'll be in banking 42 years this December - and compliance for the last 27 of them. I'm tired too, Sarah.
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#2258464 - 08/20/21 01:56 PM
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Congrats Skittles. I'm tired too.....but only 14 years in banking/compliance and probably a minimum of a dozen years before i can retire (my 401k would like 15 years a lot better).
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#2258467 - 08/20/21 02:04 PM
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I'm a bit older than Skittles, but it looks like 7 or 8 more years, if work can put up with me. It's been a tough year - our lobbies were only closed for a minimal period of time. For a couple of months, we had Covid everywhere and I was scared to death I was going to bring it home to my hubby. He's a little older than me and has health issues. Anyway, 17 years in CUs and I volunteered to learn compliance 6 or 7 years ago. So, still learning, but it keeps it interesting.
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#2258470 - 08/20/21 02:42 PM
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I have a countdown on my desktop so when I'm having a stressful day, I take a look at it. Only 734 more working days.....
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#2258471 - 08/20/21 02:50 PM
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Congrats Skittles!!
I'm hoping to last five more years till retirement but - - - I second, third and fourth the 'tired' comments - I said the same yesterday more than once.
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#2258474 - 08/20/21 03:32 PM
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Congratulations Skittles!!
I fell into compliance 22 years ago while working for a mortgage servicer. Transitioned to CU compliance 9 years ago. Still have 15 years to go before I can contemplate retiring.
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#2258480 - 08/20/21 04:04 PM
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So happy for you Skittles, I have also been in banking for 42 years as of this past May. Still have a few years to go until I will retire. Trying to hold on for the insurance. Congratulations!!!
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#2258484 - 08/20/21 04:54 PM
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4 yrs and 5 days until I retire, not that I am counting or anything.
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#2258486 - 08/20/21 05:28 PM
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I'm jealous of everyone close to retirement ...I've still got about 20 years left until I'm at full retirement age. I'm tired too!
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