Oh blue, you are on a roll today.

Oh my heck. I hate dating too. I just recently had this done to me. We were fine, everything was going well then BOOM he quits talking. Period. A month and a half later and he starts talking to me again like nothing was wrong. I'm so confused. Guys should come with instruction manuals or at least a letter of recommendation from someone. Maybe warning labels that say, caution, I'm bipolar.

Oooooooooooh Angelina, let's not get into the discussion about how all women are certifiably crazy.

I prefer to call myself unpredictable, keeps it kind of interesting.

Interesting....understatement of the century!

Bluebanker, I have a confession to make. My ring on my cell phone is, "Tina come get some ham!"

Frickin' funny! Where did you get that ring?

I have T-Mobile for service and you can download them on the internet. I have the, "Tina come get some ham!" for most of the guys on my phone. Then I have, "It took like 3 hours to finish the shading on your upper lip" for the girls on my phone

Angelina, I love that! I have the Napoleon dance music set as my ring.

That is awesome. Where did you get that?

GRRRRRRRRR, I have Cingular service and a Samsung phone. If you know of anything, I'd really appreciate it!

I have Al-tel with a Motorola phone. They have different "stores" where you can download ringtones.

I have a Samsung phone with T-Mobile. Go to the website and see if they have anything you can download. Mine are 2.00, I think, everytime I get a new ring.

Okay so cell phones and movie aside, I'm still puzzled, well I have an idea, as to why this guy would be calling. To top it off, not having talked to him for a month and a half he carries on like nothing went wrong, there was no gap in time between us talking. WACKO!!

Angelina if you have an idea, you're probably right. But if you figure out what happens in a guy's head, let me know. They are strange creatures! (regardless of bluebanker's assertion that we are the ones that are difficult to interpret)

Well I'm hoping I'm wrong, even though he's bipolar, he's cute And I would hope that he's a good enough player to know that it's going to take more than one day before he comes in to town to make me happy enough with him to make me want to go out with him again. As soon as I find out, I'll write a book on it, and I'll let you have the first copy.

Angelina - are you sure he's not married?

Yeah, I know his ex wife. He was friends with my brother for about 4 years, then we started dating. He wouldnt talk to my brother for the month and a half either. I'm still sticking with cute, but bipolar.

Most guys, myself included, are just idiots.

Are you sure he was "in" to you when you dated? Was he having a fling with his Ex? Was he frozen in Carbonite in a lab experiment gone horribly wrong?

I would go with the lab experiment gone wrong. He was in to me, I think we just needed space.

Most women, including myself, are overthinkers.

Combining overthinkers (women) with underthinkers (men) is doomed for disaster...:)

Try not to think about it too hard Z, you might strain something.