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#325553 - 04/06/05 04:16 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Pup, I'm not officially taken...
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#325554 - 04/06/05 04:44 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Well, Saphire, you don't frighten quite as much as Jen and Angie......New Mexico, eh?

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#325555 - 04/06/05 05:31 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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I frighten you? MMMUUUAAAAHHHHH (evil laugh)
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#325556 - 04/06/05 09:00 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Hey, Angie and Jen, can I get some lessons from you to become a bit more frightening? I seem to have some kind of different appeal to the opposite gender...
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#325557 - 04/06/05 09:03 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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I think I should take lessons from you if you're having better luck than I am. I'm very stupid and cant let go of what I have.
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#325558 - 04/06/05 09:09 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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It took me almost 3 years, counceling, and a lot of put-downs from people that mean something to me, to leave. I'm happier now!! I wouldn't call what I have luck. I get hit on by some not so appealing men. It's rather revolting a lot of the time. There was a guy the other day that hit on me in the bank, and today, he walked in holding hands with what seems to be a fiance... At least there was no attraction. It just seemed easier to have the same old routine with a guy that I didn't get along with, and take his mental and verbal abuse... MOST men suck!!! That's all there is to it. Keep your chin up. Women are the stronger gender.
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#325559 - 04/06/05 09:24 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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I think I should take lessons from you if you're having better luck than I am. I'm very stupid and cant let go of what I have.




I just wont let go of someone I really don't even have. How stupid is that?!?!

Jeremy knows I'm all talk...I'm really not that scary.
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#325560 - 04/06/05 09:32 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Not stupid at all. Mine changes his mind, he's either hot or cold. I'm right there with ya.
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#325561 - 04/06/05 09:37 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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I think mine is coming up tonight...hopefully to suck up a little after the argument Monday night over who I can or cannot talk to. But I doubt it.
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#325562 - 04/06/05 09:44 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Well good luck. I had an argument with mine last night about this weekend. He got mad when I asked if he had to work, because he has to work, and now I dont know where we stand. You know what stinks??? I'm all worked up and worried about where we stand, but I bet he hasnt put any thought in to it at all.
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#325563 - 04/06/05 09:51 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Well girls, there is that saying, "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?", there is also another saying "why buy the pig when you can get the sausage for free?"...
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#325564 - 04/06/05 10:00 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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I'm all worked up and worried about where we stand, but I bet he hasnt put any thought in to it at all.




Oh I guarantee mine hasn't thought twice about the argument. There's no way he thought demanding that I don't talk to any male friends ever again was out of line.

This relationship (or lack thereof) is different from anything I've been involved in before. When it's good, it's really really good but when it's bad, it's really really bad. Ok, not like abuse bad but just stupid stuff that a 31 and 34 year old shouldn't be going through!
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#325565 - 04/06/05 10:17 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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I hear ya. I dont think mine knows how to balance a female in his life and his job. I'm okay with his schedule changing all the time, I know it's his work and that's important. Apparently he never grew out of the terrible two's and throwing fits. Good luck to you tonight my friend.
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#325566 - 04/06/05 10:17 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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That's kind of funny you say that MINE IS A COP!!! HAHAHAHA
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#325567 - 04/06/05 11:47 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Good Gravy, I can't imagine my boyfriend telling me who I can and can not talk to. Ladies...don't put up with that!

I have a friend who is in an on again, off again, 5 year relationship. The guy is frankly a cheep butthead. He treats her like goober, but on occasion he's nice. I had to ask her...so those few nice moments are worth all the crying you do?

Men!!! can't live with 'em, can't chop them up into little pieces in the blender without wearing horizontal stripes...
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#325568 - 04/07/05 12:42 AM Re: Dating Troubles
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I get hit on by some not so appealing men. It's rather revolting a lot of the time.




Geez, I can take a hint!!

Dawnie, a blender? Dang, girl!! I guess the "fiery redhead" thing IS true! I've officially added you to my list of frightening women.

Jen, stay away from the wine.
Ang, stay away from the swine.
Cat, stay away from engaged men.
Dawnie, stay away from the blender.

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#325569 - 04/07/05 01:10 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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The problem I have is that most men I meet are divorced and looking to get married again. I am 35 single woman but enjoying the single life. But not interested in getting married again. Most men my age are wanting to settle down.

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#325570 - 04/07/05 01:25 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Men!!! can't live with 'em, can't chop them up into little pieces in the blender without wearing horizontal stripes...




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#325571 - 04/07/05 01:36 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Men!!! can't live with 'em, can't chop them up into little pieces in the blender without wearing horizontal stripes...









ROTFLMAO

I needed that this morning.

AND for the record...he did suck up and apologize and say he was completely out of line. He wants me all to himself, but isn't ready for a serious relationship. (DUH, neither am I) I'm just a very outgoing flirtatious friendly person and he's the jealous type. Quite possibly a dangerous combination...
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#325572 - 04/07/05 01:43 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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I'm just a very outgoing flirtatious friendly person and he's the jealous type. Quite possibly a dangerous combination...




Depends on how he handles his jealousy actually, some guys handle it ok and others well, it can get really scary.
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#325573 - 04/07/05 02:45 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Jen, stay away from the wine.
Ang, stay away from the swine.
Cat, stay away from engaged men.
Dawnie, stay away from the blender.





OMG, that is so funny. Thanks I needed the laugh this morning!
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#325574 - 04/07/05 02:46 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Jen, I'm glad he did some sucking up to you last night. Mine called and wanted to know if we were still on for the weekend and I declined. That's a HUGE step for me.
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#325575 - 04/07/05 03:31 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Pup, I stay away from them (when I know), they just can't stay away from me...

Good for you angie!!! *applaudes*
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#325576 - 04/07/05 03:35 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Good job Angie!!!
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#325577 - 04/07/05 03:40 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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you know, poor little butercup started this thread, and we haven't heard from her since...
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