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#328503 - 05/03/06 09:27 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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I'm glad to be getting a male's look on this... I've never been good at picking up on the hints.. and I've lost a lot of dates because of it... those that were at one time interested have told me later how they felt... and the truth was... I just thought we were all good friends...so I saw us nothing more than that...geesh... I've got to get better at picking up those hints.



Well here's the simple version: If the guy talks to you before you talk to him, he's interested




I thought that meant he was just being polite... geesh... no wonder I'm still single...
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#328504 - 05/03/06 09:28 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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BTW, I was kidding about what I said, but anyhow, just ask the fella. I will make you a deal, you ask him out tonight and I will ask apartment girl tonight and we can compare notes tomorrow.




Oh dear... putting me on the spot eh... not sure he'll be at the gym tonight...




don't be a lily, deal or no deal?

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#328505 - 05/03/06 09:29 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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BTW, I was kidding about what I said, but anyhow, just ask the fella. I will make you a deal, you ask him out tonight and I will ask apartment girl tonight and we can compare notes tomorrow.




Oh dear... putting me on the spot eh... not sure he'll be at the gym tonight...




don't be a lily, deal or no deal?




uh- how can I just ask him out... I don't even know his name...
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#328506 - 05/03/06 09:29 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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i wish i had someone i was interested in currently so i could participate in the fun... anyone out there single or not a dweeb?




what kind of qualifier is that?




you'd be surprised how many unwanteds are illiminated by that one thing....
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#328507 - 05/03/06 09:29 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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BTW, I was kidding about what I said, but anyhow, just ask the fella. I will make you a deal, you ask him out tonight and I will ask apartment girl tonight and we can compare notes tomorrow.




Oh dear... putting me on the spot eh... not sure he'll be at the gym tonight...




don't be a lily, deal or no deal?



what was the bank offer? and what suitcases are still left?
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#328508 - 05/03/06 09:31 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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i wish i had someone i was interested in currently so i could participate in the fun... anyone out there single or not a dweeb?



single OR not a dweeb? so you'd prefer a dweeb or someone who is in a relationship, as long as its not both?
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#328509 - 05/03/06 09:32 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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BTW, I was kidding about what I said, but anyhow, just ask the fella. I will make you a deal, you ask him out tonight and I will ask apartment girl tonight and we can compare notes tomorrow.




Oh dear... putting me on the spot eh... not sure he'll be at the gym tonight...




don't be a lily, deal or no deal?




uh- how can I just ask him out... I don't even know his name...




say Hi, I'm _____ would you like to go out?

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#328510 - 05/03/06 09:33 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Wouldn't it be better to aim high than 'eliminate unwanteds'?

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#328511 - 05/03/06 09:33 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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C'mon T, deal or no deal? I have to know I am about to leave.

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#328512 - 05/03/06 09:33 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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BTW, I was kidding about what I said, but anyhow, just ask the fella. I will make you a deal, you ask him out tonight and I will ask apartment girl tonight and we can compare notes tomorrow.




Oh dear... putting me on the spot eh... not sure he'll be at the gym tonight...




don't be a lily, deal or no deal?




uh- how can I just ask him out... I don't even know his name...




say Hi, I'm _____ would you like to go out?




C'mon Xodus... I just don't think I can bring myself to ask him out this fast... At least with the apt gal... you've talked to her before... we've shared nothing more than the simple... Hi... smile... wave...blush..
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#328513 - 05/03/06 09:34 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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i wish i had someone i was interested in currently so i could participate in the fun... anyone out there single or not a dweeb?



single OR not a dweeb? so you'd prefer a dweeb or someone who is in a relationship, as long as its not both?




lol, sorry its like 30 minutes till i leave for the day, my brain is partly shut down... i meant AND.

it would also be nice if he doesn't fit any of the following deal breakers of mine:

1. lives with parents
2. chews tobacco
3. is a promise keeper
4. has considered homo-sexuality as a extracuricular activity
5. is related to Jason Mewes
6. is a total wank.
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#328514 - 05/03/06 09:35 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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BTW, I was kidding about what I said, but anyhow, just ask the fella. I will make you a deal, you ask him out tonight and I will ask apartment girl tonight and we can compare notes tomorrow.




Oh dear... putting me on the spot eh... not sure he'll be at the gym tonight...




don't be a lily, deal or no deal?




uh- how can I just ask him out... I don't even know his name...



well one way to change that is to say "hi, I've been meaning to introduce myself to you, I'm _____"
And thats usually where he then tells you his name
and then you could say "so do you have any plans for saturday?" or "would you like to go out some time?" or something to that effect lol
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#328515 - 05/03/06 09:35 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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Search, get one of those pickup lines and use it in a joking manner. See, girls think guys who use pickup lines are cheesy (which I won't debate) but speaking from this guy's point of view, I think it's cute when another girl uses a pickup line! Try it!
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#328516 - 05/03/06 09:35 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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could you clarify #6? i am not sure I know what a total wank is.

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#328517 - 05/03/06 09:37 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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crap, it looks like xodus beat me to it on the "hi I'm ____" etc lol
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#328518 - 05/03/06 09:37 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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knowing the person better only adds to the tension, if he says no you just move on, but if you get all buddy buddy then you will never pull the trigger. Haven't you seen "Just Friends"? Dont enter the friend zone. just ask, that's what I'm going to do.

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#328519 - 05/03/06 09:38 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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i wish i had someone i was interested in currently so i could participate in the fun... anyone out there single or not a dweeb?



single OR not a dweeb? so you'd prefer a dweeb or someone who is in a relationship, as long as its not both?




lol, sorry its like 30 minutes till i leave for the day, my brain is partly shut down... i meant AND.

it would also be nice if he doesn't fit any of the following deal breakers of mine:

1. lives with parents
2. chews tobacco
3. is a promise keeper
4. has considered homo-sexuality as a extracuricular activity
5. is related to Jason Mewes
6. is a total wank.



so keeping promises is bad?
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#328520 - 05/03/06 09:38 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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besides, I am sure she doesn't know my name either, she just knows where I live.

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#328521 - 05/03/06 09:39 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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You guys are such sweeties....

About the friends issue... it would be nice to at least be on talking terms... not necessary know all his history right now... but at least know a bit more about him... we'll see what happens tonight... I'm trying to think.. I don't remember if he was in the gym last Wed... guess I'll find out tonight.. right...
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#328522 - 05/03/06 09:39 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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could you clarify #6? i am not sure I know what a total wank is.




well technically wank is a verb meaning to masterbate. but it is commonly used to refer to someone as disgusting and perverted....
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#328523 - 05/03/06 09:41 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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besides, I am sure she doesn't know my name either, she just knows where I live.




If you've talked to her.. I'm sure she knows your name... Handsome men like yourself... hard to forget those names...
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#328524 - 05/03/06 09:41 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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BTW, I was kidding about what I said, but anyhow, just ask the fella. I will make you a deal, you ask him out tonight and I will ask apartment girl tonight and we can compare notes tomorrow.




Oh dear... putting me on the spot eh... not sure he'll be at the gym tonight...




don't be a lily, deal or no deal?




uh- how can I just ask him out... I don't even know his name...




say Hi, I'm _____ would you like to go out?




C'mon Xodus... I just don't think I can bring myself to ask him out this fast... At least with the apt gal... you've talked to her before... we've shared nothing more than the simple... Hi... smile... wave...blush..



Well, if you don't want to ask him out yet, you could just try to start a conversation for a minute next time you see him, then give him you're number
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#328525 - 05/03/06 09:42 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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could you clarify #6? i am not sure I know what a total wank is.




well technically wank is a verb meaning to masterbate. but it is commonly used to refer to someone as disgusting and perverted....




guess ya got that answer...
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#328526 - 05/03/06 09:42 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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could you clarify #6? i am not sure I know what a total wank is.




well technically wank is a verb meaning to masterbate. but it is commonly used to refer to someone as disgusting and perverted....




guess ya got that answer...




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#328527 - 05/03/06 09:43 PM Re: Dating Troubles
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BTW, I was kidding about what I said, but anyhow, just ask the fella. I will make you a deal, you ask him out tonight and I will ask apartment girl tonight and we can compare notes tomorrow.




Oh dear... putting me on the spot eh... not sure he'll be at the gym tonight...




don't be a lily, deal or no deal?




uh- how can I just ask him out... I don't even know his name...




say Hi, I'm _____ would you like to go out?




C'mon Xodus... I just don't think I can bring myself to ask him out this fast... At least with the apt gal... you've talked to her before... we've shared nothing more than the simple... Hi... smile... wave...blush..



Well, if you don't want to ask him out yet, you could just try to start a conversation for a minute next time you see him, then give him you're number




Okay... tonight I'm gonna try to at least get a conversation going... can't promise I'll come back with the best of news... but I'll see what happens... hopefully he'll be there...
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