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all I know is.... if a girl stares at me for 4 seconds and then touches my arm, I now know that means she is interested.

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You didn't pick up on that before huh? You know I think that one works both ways!! You should give it a try!!!

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If you were just seeing someone and found out that person was seeing someone else besides you, would you still feel the same way about the person you were seeing?

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my dating life is pretty much non-existant right now. I have been watching for girls to stare but no such luck. I haven't met anyone lately, but maybe by the end of summer. Or if my pool would open at my complex.

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Remember the show said you have to put yourself "out there!" Go someplace and strike up a converstaion with a little cutie! Remember your questions...and of course the stare (not for too long though...that's creepy!!)

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i'd go out with skunk and auditguy at least once though and that's just cuz i think they'd make fun pals and they are cute to boot! (by the way boys, your welcome for the props! lol!)

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so T, you done a lot of seclusive dating?? Hmmmn, how does that work out exactly?

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LOL!! May just go back to the creepy thing, huh??

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so T, you done a lot of seclusive dating?? Hmmmn, how does that work out exactly?

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LOL!! May just go back to the creepy thing, huh??

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LOL...look at you two... I walk away for lunch.. come back and now I'm labeled creepy...

Oops...wrong word... I've corrected my mistake...

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I understand the whole play the field thing, but is it right to go out seeking another date when you already have one lined up? They said don't put your emotional eggs in one basket, so then what? make an omellette?

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I can't personally do the whole dating around thing. I suppose if you're really just trying to make friends, it would be a different situation. I just can't start something romantic, or even hopefully romantic with more than one person. Seems kinda yucky to me .

I'll watch shows like The Bachelor and think - gross! Why on earth would you want to be sucking face with someone when you know they're doing it with other people too? Eeeewwww!

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I understand the whole play the field thing, but is it right to go out seeking another date when you already have one lined up? They said don't put your emotional eggs in one basket, so then what? make an omellette?

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I can't personally do the whole dating around thing. I suppose if you're really just trying to make friends, it would be a different situation. I just can't start something romantic, or even hopefully romantic with more than one person. Seems kinda yucky to me .

I'll watch shows like The Bachelor and think - gross! Why on earth would you want to be sucking face with someone when you know they're doing it with other people too? Eeeewwww!

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Well.. I guess I've got a totally different outlook on dating... to me dating is not all about "making out"... what happened to when dating was just going out and having fun..and not making it a sexual event. Innocent...casual fun.

When I say "dating" I mean the process of eliminating the guys/gals ya know won't be the one for you. If I'm asked to go on a date... I'm not thinking... oh he wants to jump into my pants or suck my face off...I'm thinking we'll have fun and enjoy our time. If something develops from there... then fine by me... but to go in thinking I'm gonna give it up just because he bought my dinner or purchased my movie tickets... roll on buddy... this is not a come and go laundry mat...I've been on dates before where I've felt the guy felt that I owed him that...needless to say.. when the lady asked if seperate checks or on one... my answer... seperate please... and left him dazed as to why I chose for him to not pay my bill. Some people can be such pigs....yes.. men and women alike.

Why does the majoritiy of people think if ya go on a date... ya gotta put out? Never understood that.. where's your self respect? Oh well... who knows... everyone is different and this is JMO.

And FG... you're right... the Bachelor and all those dang reality shows... are just plain ol' stupid.

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ThePaul is back
The forums arent blocked anymore but the login screen is so I'll be anon if I post...
Anyway, I've had A LOT of drama in the last couple weeks. I don't wanna write a 10 page paper about it so I'll give the short version:
Two weeks ago we had a new girl start at my branch who I was training... My really good friend who works at my branch could tell that I was attracted to her because we were constantly flirting with eachother, and she decided that she hated this girl before she ever even talked to her. So basically, my friend told me that she didnt think I should date the new girl and would get mad at me every single time I talked to her until it eventually got to the point where she wouldnt talk to me for days because of it. Well then, a week later my "friend" told HR (her best friend works in HR) that me and the new girl were dating and got her transfered to another branch because of it. It was true, but it did not affect our work at all, she only got her transfered because she didnt like her. Now, the new girl has already quit because the other girl basically made her first 2 weeks [censored] and had gotten the 2 main HR people to not like her too because of whatever story she told them. There were other things that happened also, but it would take wayyy too long to explain.
So now, I hate working with my ex-best friend, but I did get something good out of this... Things are going very very well between me and the girl who just quit.

-=ThePaul=-

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Wow... this is crazy... if I'm thinking correctly...I know which friend you're talking about... sorry to hear that... women can be so crude at times. But glad you've found a keeper...

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Yeah Search, its the one you're thinking of that I used to have the big crush on
Oh and another random thing... My timing is horrible, a girl that I was interested in who works at the tanning place that I go to just asked me out right after I'm no longer single lol... No biggie though, better to be able to turn down a good one for a great one than to not have anyone to turn down at all

-=ThePaul=-

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Guess things work in the most craziest ways.... but at least something good did come of this disastrous event. I can't believe she would do that to you... I mean.... she was your BF...and already dating someone else. Well... ya know how to contact me outside of BOL... if ya need to vent further... But I'm happy you're dating...