how about...what should I buy this guy I've been seeing for Christmas?? He like music and he is really into his health. He likes to dance and have fun. He just bought a pool table. Any suggestions??

How long have you been seeing him? That would make a difference is what kind of gift I would get.

What about dance lessons? He likes to dance and work out, and dancing is really popular right now with the whole Dancing with the Stars thing.

That's the funny thing I've only been seeing him for over a week now.

He bought me Hinder tickets for my birthday which is the 23rd.

Only a week? I wouldn't go too crazy then. Maybe some CD's or Gift certificates to a music store, Jamba Juice...things that he's interested in.

You don't want to start with big gifts, then you have to worry about topping yourself and it then he'll try to keep up...etc.

Something VERY small. Like a sweatshirt, or a Leather Wallet...nothing over $50.00!! You will appear too eager.

Good idea. I know a cd he has been talking about getting. I already told him he shouldn't buy anything until after Christmas so people have a chance to get him stuff he wants. So I could get that. I think gift cards are so impersonal so if I got that cd he would know I was listening.

And I take it one ticket is for him?

I could get him something with his fave college football team on it or I could be a pain and get him something with my favorite team!!

I think that gift cards are great if you give them with something else. I agree that they are impersonal on their own.

Okay, I have to ask! Just what in the blazes are "Hinder" tickets?

Yes, I am old(er)!

Some band I think, but all this new-fangled stuff they call music sounds like noise to me...

I know the perfect gift! If he's really into his health you should buy him personal training sessions with me! lol

Dump him -- then you won't have to buy anything. Save the money for my birthday gift.

You are to funny!! And yes Hinder is a new band. It isn't just noise Max. The lyrics to the songs are awesome!!

I agree Jen...I really like Hinder (can't get enough of "Lips of an Angel").

(and I'm no spring-chicken either!)

I say, you get up on the pool table and dance for him - that's a great gift!

Is this some sort of lonely hearts dating thread? I've never seen so many losers in one group.

Funny! I just won a gift certificate for 4 private lessons and 1 group lesson in ballroom dancing...I am so excited and I don't even watch Dancing with the Stars!

Question: Would you now be part of the group since you're in here? LOL... What's up Ray?

I have only known him about 2 weeks now. Plus everyone tells me I should take it slow. If I did this I would definitely be moving faster than I want to right now

Finally! The biggest loser has arrived. We were waiting on you, X-lax.

I used to like that song until I paid attention to the lyrics... Now I'd rather not listen to a song about cheating...

I don't think it's about cheating. I think it's about a couple who never really had closure. He says in the song that He doesn't want to leave but she makes it hard to stay faithful. I don't think it's about cheating at all

way to be ThePaul, my sentiments exactly. It drove me crazy when everybody ln myspace had that going. I was thinking "doesn't anybody realize this song is about cheating with your ex?"

C'mon Jen how many times did you get those late night calls w/slime ball or scum bag or whatever? That's exactly what it's about.